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Author: Chantel Brink

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10 min read Relationship

<p>Nobody announces they’re watching you. That’s the whole point. The person sitting across from you at dinner, the friend who casually asks if you remembered what they told you last month, the colleague who calls in a favor on a random Tuesday – they may not even realize what they’re doing. But something in them…</p>

11 min read Relationship

<p>You’ve confused what’s powerful about you with what protects you. Those two things can feel identical for years. The woman who has genuinely done the work to trust herself and the one who has quietly decided she can’t trust anyone else can walk into the same room with the same posture, the same contained confidence,…</p>

9 min read Fun

<p>If you had to pick up and move somewhere purely for the fun of it, where would you go? Not for the job market, not for the school district, not because your sister lives there. Just for the sheer, uncomplicated experience of enjoying yourself. It turns out that question has a data-driven answer, and the…</p>

14 min read History

<p>Most of us grow up absorbing the beliefs of our faith communities without ever questioning where those ideas came from. They’re in the air at Sunday school, woven into sermons, sung in hymns. If enough people repeat them with enough conviction, they start to feel ancient and authoritative, and eventually, they feel biblical. The trouble…</p>

9 min read Lifestyle

<p>The number that stops most retirement conversations cold is not $1 million, or $2 million, or whatever the latest survey says Americans think they need. It’s the actual number, the one sitting in the account when someone finally does the math. For most people, that number is sobering. The retirement savings gap between what people…</p>

9 min read Relationship

<p>Most people are confident they’d know if someone was lying to them. That confidence, it turns out, is part of the problem. We read into eye contact, fidgeting, and nervous pauses. We notice when someone won’t look at us directly. We trust our gut. And most of the time, we’re wrong, not dramatically wrong, but…</p>