Relationships can be very mysterious occurrences. They seem to strike when you are least expecting them, even if you are actively looking for love. A sudden glance across a room, the chance meeting of a stranger or the accidental introduction by a friend can trigger a spark that creates a cascade of events that culminate in two people discovering a mutual love for one another. This strange occurrence can be so random, so unexpected that fate must have had a hand in orchestrating it. Even if you don’t necessarily believe in destiny, sometimes coincidences occur that seriously challenge your skepticism.
Other people believe that fate is what you make it. You have to go out and actively take a role in shaping life in order to bend fate to your will. Nothing will ever happen unless you are willing to take a chance and start to stack the deck in your favor. With effort, you can begin to tip the odds so that you have a better chance of getting the things you really want out of life, including the romance of a lifetime.
By improving your prospects for love, you are more likely to meet the person you are most suited for. This can include traveling widely, meeting lots of people, making lots of friends, and taking chances in love. Putting yourself out there and never being afraid of rejection is the best way to put yourself in the way of love, thereby ensuring that you are available for the right person when they come along.
When two people find each other after years of searching for the perfect match, the heat of their love affair can feel incredibly intense. They have tried many other partnerships, some of which may have been satisfying in their own way – for a while – but none has felt quite so perfect as this one. Other relationships pale in comparison to this perfect compatibility, and the couple starts to lose themselves in one another.
This heightened bond is very tender; it can even be frightening if one or even both partners have never experienced it before. This newness can cause people to pull away even though they still love the other person very much.
The happy couple can feel devastated when a seemingly perfect relationship comes to an end. Something so ideal was certainly meant to be, right? This new bond forged by fate can be very intimidating and even though people say they are ready for it, not everyone is prepared for what a destined relationship really requires. Sometimes a trial run is required before they are truly prepared to commit to the relationship. This is why people pull away even from a perfect relationship. Even if you have struggled to find an ideal match, you might feel intimidated by the depth of the bond you feel with another person; it can be a very heavy thing.
Whether you believe in destiny or if you think you are responsible for making your own destiny, if you are supposed to be together with your ideal match, forces beyond your control can conspire to bring you back together. After all, you have invested considerable energy in preparing yourself to be together. Even if you had to walk away for a short time, you can come back to the relationship renewed and prepared to commit to them. Fate will give you another chance. There is always hope, so long as you are ready to fight for them.
Don’t give up on yourself or on the relationship of your dreams. There is the perfect match out there for you. If you have found them and perhaps walked away from them, fate will give you a second chance to be with them. Don’t be afraid of being together; fight to win them back and then commit to that perfect relationship.