Why would someone waste their time and energy talking about you behind your back? Well maybe they have nothing better to do. Maybe they are such an enormously boring human being, that they have to create drama and chaos in order to be happy.
Whatever the reason, it’s pathetic. But it does happen. Eventually, someone you trust will talk shit about you behind your back. To see why, let’s take a look at an insightful article by Relationship Rules about the zodiac signs:
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
As an Aries, you have a tendency to be very motivated and domineering. You have a strong personality and you are very driven to succeed. While a lot of people wish they could emulate your drive and relentlessness, they are also very much intimidated by you. It’s not easy for a lot of them to deal with a person whose personality is as strong and as dominant as yours.
Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
It should be obvious. The most outlandish feature of your personality is your stubbornness and it’s really what stands out when people start talking about you. As a Taurus, you are inherently reluctant to listen to any form of opposition or criticism. People generally like you because you’re strong, but they hate that you just can’t handle different perspectives.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
Your unpredictability is what makes you come off as a person whose really shady and untrustworthy. People generally talk about how uneasy they feel whenever they’re interacting with a Gemini. You are adaptable and you adjust your personality depending on the person that you’re with and this can lead people to believe that you are always being fake.
Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
Your clinginess is always what people most talk about behind your back. As a Cancer, you are a very caring and kindhearted person. You are very loving and emotional; you have a reputation for being very sensitive and empathetic. However, you can also come off as someone who is very emotionally needy and dependent on other people to survive.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Your love for yourself is what gets others really riled up when talking about you. You are known to be quite fond of yourself as a Leo. You are a modern-day narcissist and you often let your pride get the best of you. People tend to notice this about you and that’s what they always talk about whenever you come up.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You’re just really difficult to be with because of your general uptightness and perfectionist ways. As a Virgo, people generally admire that you have great attention to detail. But they can also get wildly irritated at the fact that you always need to impose unreasonable standards on both yourself and the people who are around you.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
It’s a mix of good and bad for whenever people start talking about you behind your back. As a Libra, you are known to be someone who is sociable and morally upright. They like that you are friendly and that you aren’t fake. However, people also steer the conversations about you towards the fact that you’re just very fickle-minded and downright indecisive. You are very gullible and easily swayable.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
Your inability to trust the people around you will always be what people bring up whenever they start talking about you. People just feel really on edge whenever they’re interacting with you because you never make an effort to actually make them feel comfortable around you.
Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
Your directness and your bluntness is what people mostly talk about you behind your back. It’s a double-edged sword. As a Sagittarius, you are really known to just speak your truth and say whatever is on your mind and people generally appreciate your honesty. But sometimes, your tactlessness tends to rub people off the wrong way.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
People generally talk about just how boring you are as a person. As a Capricorn, you are always looking to live your life in a structured and organized manner. You don’t like any surprises or anything that is out of the ordinary. You like to plan and be prepared for anything. However, this is also what makes you a very boring and predictable person to a lot of the people you interact with. They see you as a very uptight person.
Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
Your quirks and your unique traits are what make you interesting, but they’re also what make you very hard to relate to. As an Aquarius, you have the mind of a creative genius and it’s constantly working at 110 percent. However, a lot of people are not able to keep up with your intellectual prowess and as a result, it can be hard for people to really understand you.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Your emotional and vulnerable nature is the most likely subject of the talks that people have about you behind your back. As a Pisces, you are known to be quite fragile. Your emotional nature has led people to believe that you are an inherently weak person who constantly needs to be coddled and taken care of. They believe you to be someone who would crumble at even the slightest comment.