What do you think, why do families break up if in front of the altar the two loving people sincerely want to make each other happy?
Love is a peculiar thing that you can’t hide, but can easily lose with time. The problem is that usually, both are to blame for a divorce. However, there is something more. Let’s now move away from the stereotypes and get to the bottom of the issue:
1. Lack of attention
A woman simply can’t live without attention. It is her air and her food. Even if you had a hard day, it’s no reason to ignore your wife. If you don’t have the strength to say how good she is and how much you love her, then maybe this relationship isn’t working. She will soon decide that you don’t need her if you don’t make an effort. By depriving your wife of your attention you let her know that the end is near.
2. Lack of praise
Women praise their husbands, knowing how important this is for them. But they also need to be praised. For the delicious burgers she cooked in the morning; for taking the child to the music school in a rush hour; for being smart, wise, loving, good in bed and simply because she is just a wonderful wife.
3. Lack of romance
Do you remember how it was at the beginning? Flowers, singing to a guitar, and everyday surprises. Such trifles make a woman feel that you believe in their relationship. Women simply blossom from the slightest romantic gesture. Don’t let the routine take away your love.
4. Excessive criticism
Criticism can be constructive and destructive. Even fair criticism in large amounts affects a woman in a negative way. In the early stages of your relationship, you didn’t make her feel guilty like you do now. Can you imagine what your criticism can do? First of all, it won’t help. It will destroy your wife’s healthy self-esteem, and turn you into a tyrant.
5. Comparison
Would you like your wife to start comparing you to other men? Would you like to hear that her boss has a better body, and her neighbor is the wisest man ever? You wouldn’t be really delighted. The same thing is about your comparisons. When you say that you like someone more, this is the beginning of the end for your love, family, and relationships. Even though you didn’t mean it like that, at least, you must have thought about it subconsciously.
Dear men, your wives are the best women in the world. Protect them, appreciate them, and simply love them till death do you part.
Written By: LAJMET2
This article was originally published on Love Story Ex.