F*ck Soulmates, Here’s Who You Should Really Be Searching For

by Dr. Amanda Noelle | MyTinySecrets.com

There comes a point in one’s evolution when even a soulmate relationship isn’t enough…

This may come as a surprise to you, but there are many potential soulmates out there for you. An infinite number of viable partners you could settle down and live a decent, or even wonderful life with.

However, there comes a point in one’s spiritual evolution when even a soulmate relationship isn’t enough. It no longer fulfills your soul’s path.

You hunger for something more, yet you don’t know what it is.

Your soulmate relationships start crumbling, no matter what you do.

There is an ache in your heart that is insatiable because you are being called to experience the highest expression of divine love.

You are ready to find your one true Twin Flame.


Twin Flames are two people, two separate sides of the same soul, two complete halves of the same whole who come together in unity to create something greater than the sum of its parts.

When people say, “I want to meet my soulmate,” they often mean, “I want to meet my Twin Flame.”

Twin Flames are a very specific type of soulmate, often considered to be the ‘Holy Grail’ of relationships.

Many conscious love-seekers are now awakening to this once little-known form of soulmate love, yet the Twin Flame Theory dates back through time as far as history can record.  Across cultures, around the globe through religious and spiritual teachings, ancient mystery schools, and through symbolism and myth.
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Well, What the Heck is a Soulmate then?

By definition, a ‘soulmate’ is simply someone with whom you evolve, grow, and learn life, love, and spiritual lessons.

These can be pleasant or horrific experiences. They happen on the physical, financial, emotional, mental, or spiritual levels.

Soulmates can be of the romantic or platonic type. For instance, business relationships, your mother, and your spiritual teacher are all types of soulmate relationships. Each of these relationships brings spiritual and life lessons.

Certain soulmates are here to guide you as your teacher: your second grade teacher, college professor, boss, or that romantic soulmate who opened your heart for the first time.


Other soulmates are here to enlighten you as their teacher, from the perspective of the student. Your children, your younger sibling, and your clients fall into this category of soulmates.

When you share your gifts as a teacher, you learn through the teaching process and gain confidence by being able to provide something of value to another. You also enjoy the experience of feeling needed and appreciated.

Soulmate growth always goes both ways. We learn through each other, seeing the other as our own reflection.

Ultimately, there are endless types of soulmates out there. Each of them is important to us at different times in our lives for different kinds of learning and growth.
The Divine Purpose of Heartbreak


Heartbreaks can be an incredible initiation to the soul.

In order to love, we must be willing to lose. This is an important Twin Flame truth to know.  Heartbreaks teach us to seek our own deep well of love within.

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Sometimes the ugly way is the only way for us to grow quickly, so we can learn the vital lessons through extremes. We are left hungry, and our heart cries out for true Twin Flame Love.

However, many people become so addicted to this illusory love, misinterpreting it as the real deal. They miss the valuable love lessons.

It is only with self-love that you can discern the difference between a Twin Flame and a Karmic Soulmate.

To find your twin flame you must make a commitment to never again settle or repeat the pattern of seeking love outside yourself.

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