Are you the kind of woman who always goes for the wrong guy? You don’t do it on purpose, it’s not something you set out to do, but when everything comes to a head, it turns out that the person you have been chasing this whole time wasn’t worth any of your time at all.
Breaking out from this cycle can be tough, but it can be done. What is important to discover on the road to changing your behaviour is why you are compelled to go after the wrong people in the first place.
Here is why you chase the wrong people based on your zodiac sign:
You always assume that they are being fun and playing hard to get, but in reality you have read the messages wrong and the truth is that they just aren’t that interested to start with!
You are so used to being the one in a relationship that cares the most that sometimes you don’t notice when your other half has gone from coasting to actually not caring at all.
Deep down inside, Gemini’s have a great capacity for punishing themselves even when they don’t deserve it, and this can often manifest in choosing to enter into relationships that they already know are going to bad for them.
Because you have so much confidence in yourself and in your own abilities, you think you are going to be able to fix and change them, but in reality, they are too stubborn and uncaring to change even under your powers.
Typically, you are drawn to guys that don’t even show much of an interest in you, because the notion that they don’t actually want you makes you want them even more!
You feel so strongly about being in a relationship that most of the time you are willing to overlook red flags and flaws until they become too much of a problem.
You tend to see the best in everyone, and that counts even for the kinds of guys who don’t deserve to have the best seen in them because their best is comparable to everyone else’s worst!
You can’t help but see chasing someone problematic or that you know isn’t good for you as a challenge, and you have never been one to turn down a challenge!
It’s one of life’s cruel twists, but you only seem to be attracted to people who have all of the character traits that are terrible for you.
You make your mind up on a crush way too quickly, and once you see something that you like, you are determined to go after them even if there are 100 red flags along the way.
When you grow attached to someone, you treat them as your number one priority, and it takes you a long time to get out of that mode with them even after they have shown themselves to be toxic.
You are too optimistic in the sense that you always think that they are going to be a different person tomorrow, even though you know deep down inside that they won’t be.