February 3, 2018 ·  4 min read

What You See First In This Image Reveals What’s Secretly Important To You In Relationships

You will never be able to find that certain something until you know exactly what it is that you are looking for.

Personality tests are an easy and fast way to discover hidden truths about yourself. One of the most challenging things for people in love is finding out what’s most important to them and what they secretly want to experience in their relationships.


Of course, we all want the basic things- like being “happy” and “secure” in a relationship, but we may not always know what that looks like. It is different for everyone. On top of all that, we have no idea what these things mean for us or about us.

There are numerous resources available to assist you with finding out what you want most in your romantic involvements, such as therapists who will work with you, books, apps, and even TV shows dedicated to helping those with relationship questions.

But to be honest, all of that information can sometimes feel a little overwhelming. So, if you’d rather take an easier route, we’ve got another solution for you.

Look at the image below and without hesitating, what do you see first?

Now, scroll down and reveal what the this personality test says about what’s secretly most important to you in love and relationships.

If you saw…

1. The man’s face.

If the first thing you noticed was the man’s face, you are one of those people who always see the big picture. You enjoy planning out every detail of your life- from the moment you wake up, to the moment you go to sleep. You just can’t help yourself, and having a sense of control makes you feel comfortable and secure.

The thing you secretly want most out of a relationship is stability and control.

You feel like you are on top of the world when you are guiding others and taking charge of your own life. You need a strong partner who is willing to let you take the reins. This also shows that they trust you, which is also a ranking-factor to you.

2. The sheep.

If the first thing you noticed was the sheep, you are considered sensitive, and romantic. You are the type of person who is hurt rather easily. You have a an enormous heart filled to the brim with love to give, but you are fearful. Rejection, and worrying about being let down looms over your thoughts. You don’t want to be this way but you can’t help it, your heart controls you.

The thing you secretly desire out of a relationship is to be swept off your feet.

To be honest, you want to feel appreciated and adored every moment of the day. You’re the type who wants flowers and chocolates, with rose petals lining your path, placed by a partner who serenades you with song. And what’s more, you want someone who isn’t just trying to be nice once in a while, you want someone who has romance in their blood.

3. The boy at the tree.

If the first thing you noticed was the boy at the tree, you’re an optimist but also a realist. You like to enjoy the aspects of dreaming that you two will be together forever, but know that in all likelihood it may not happen. You’ve been through the ups and downs of the dating world, but you still have a firm belief in love. The only difference between past you and present you is you aren’t going to fall in love as quickly as you were when you first started this relationship adventure.

The thing you desire most out of a relationship is open communication and trust.

You’re not the type who needs flowers or elaborate gestures. All you need is someone who understands that a relationship requires equal time and effort from both parties. You want a partner who can communicate openly without making things personal, and who is willing to listen when they need to. One sure way to your heart is by talking things through- your mind is what needs to be seduced.

4. The huts.

If the first thing you noticed was the huts, you are the type of person who is afraid of a genuine relationship. You enjoy the prospect of having a partner, but sharing your life and opening up to someone is not something you are comfortable with- yet. You’ve been known to end relationships abruptly when things get too serious, and have run away from potential love more than once. You want a real relationship one day, but maybe not today.

The thing you desire most out of a relationship is friendship and physical intimacy without labels.

It has many names, but at the end of the day all you want is a friend who you can be intimate with. No strings attached, of course. You may not have clear lines defining what your “relationship” is, but as long as both parties are willing to take things slow when it comes to labels, it’s all good.

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