The 10 simple things will keep your lady happy, pretty much for as long as you continue to do them.
It actually doesn’t take too much to make a woman happy. It just so happens that a lot of guys in the world are clueless when it comes to really figuring out what their women need in relationships. Don’t make that mistake. Be aware of what really makes your woman tick. The better you know how to make your girl happy, the happier you are going to be as well. And don’t worry. There’s no need to over-complicate things. Here are a few tips that you could follow to keep your woman happy in the relationship.
1. Take her out on fun dates.
Dates are great. They are one of the rare opportunities in a relationship where you just get to block out all the noise and chatter of the adult world so that you can be alone with one another. It’s where you can really enjoy each other’s company. And so it’s only right that you actually try your best to make your dates fun and interesting. Don’t be content with taking her out for a boring dinner all the time. Mix things up. Put some creativity into it. Let her know that you still want to surprise her with your creativity.
2. Make it a point to be communicative with her.
Communication is always going to be important in any kind of romantic relationship. You aren’t mind-readers. You’re not going to be able to figure out what your partner is thinking or saying if you don’t talk about it. So always be communicative. Don’t expect her to just know what you want and need from her. Be honest and open. Talk to her constantly and always keep her in the loop with regards to your life.
3. Always make her feel like you’re there for her whenever she needs you.
Dependability is another very important aspect of any healthy relationship. She is always going to have to feel like you’re there for her. You must always be able to give her the safety and security that she needs from this relationship. You can’t make her happy if you are constantly forcing her to feel like you could walk out on her at any minute. Let her know that you really have her back and that you’re in it for as long as you need to be.
4. Give her as much attention as she needs.
Be attentive. Learn to listen. Stop being so selfish. She has her own personal needs and you have to be able to address them as well. It can’t always just be about what you want out of the relationship.
5. Try your best to get her friends and family to like you.
Her friends and her family are the most important people in her life. And since you’re also going to be an important person to her, it only makes sense that you make an effort to integrate yourself in her already existent social life. You have to make an effort to try to get her friends and family to like you. She will be very happy with whatever effort you try to put forth here.
6. Don’t be withholding with your expressions of love.
Stop playing your games. Stop playing hard to get. You’re already in a relationship together. There’s no point in trying to feign indifference and disinterest anymore. If you love her, and if you want her to love you in return, then let her know. Be expressive with your emotions. Don’t withhold them. Shower her with lots of love and affection and she is bound to do the same for you as well.
7. Meet her sexual needs and desires as well.
Sex is an often overlooked aspect of relationships. A lot of couples think that it’s just something that they have to get over with every now and then. But sex is so much more than that. It’s a physical manifestation of the emotional bond and connection between two people. It’s the ultimate show of trust and humility between two physical forces. And all she really wants from you is to be generous. Give as much as you’re willing to get in the bedroom.
8. Trust and respect her.
Don’t demean and belittle her. Don’t treat her like a child. Put her on equal footing with you. Respect her as a mature individual who is in a mature relationship with you.
9. Apologize whenever you screw up.
Don’t let your pride get in the way of her happiness. There are so many relationships all over the world that crumble because of oversized egos. Learn to just swallow your pride and own up to whatever mistakes or shortcomings you might have in the relationship. Apologize whenever you wrong her. It might not be easy to earn her forgiveness. But it’s definitely a good step to getting her to be happy with you again.
10. Stay loyal to her.
This is something that should be plainly obvious. You can’t expect your girl to be happy if you are unfaithful to her. Be committed to her and to her alone. Don’t make her feel like she’s a mere option to you. Always make her feel like a true priority.