Did you know that your zodiac sign can tell you about literally everything? Okay, maybe not absolutely everything, but pretty close. When it comes to your relationship and how you behave, astrology knows a lot more than you might give it credit for. You might be super into the stars and the systems, or maybe you have a friend or relative who always tells you about this stuff, but either way, it’s super interesting to consider how your zodiac sign affects how you live and behave. Matters of the heart are always so confusing and complicated, you definitely want to listen to the stars. Any help that you can get is a good idea, right? You definitely want to know the truth about how you act when you’ve got a serious boyfriend. Here are 15 relationship things you hate doing based on your zodiac sign. Did you know this stuff already or was it a big surprise?
12. Aquarius: Making Plans
When you’re an Aquarius, you’re a very loyal girlfriend. You definitely aren’t afraid of commitment and you like having honest conversations with the person that you’re in a relationship with. That means when it comes to relationship things, you absolutely hate making plans with your partner. Coordinating your schedules and trying to find times to hang out is really boring to you and there’s nothing that you want to do less. Unfortunately, this is something that needs to be done because if you don’t find time for each other, you’re never going to see each other… and your relationship won’t exactly last. You probably will never enjoy this aspect of being in a relationship and yet there’s not much that you can do since this is a necessary thing. Sorry but sometimes, life and love are both kind of boring.
11. Pisces: Having A Difficult Conversation
Whether you’re talking about taking things to the next level, moving in together, or even the things that are going wrong in your relationship, you’re not interested at all. You hate having difficult conversations and you definitely don’t like arguments or any kind of conflict. You’re a peaceful person and you’re pretty sensitive, and that means that you don’t want to hear what you’re doing wrong (or what is wrong with you in general). That hurts you a ton and you would rather not get any kind of criticism at all. Of course, it’s not possible to be in a serious relationship without having any difficult conversations, so this is probably something that you want to work on. You can tell your boyfriend that you’re not one for conflict and try your best to talk things out without getting into a huge fight. Chances are, he doesn’t want to fight, either.
10. Aries: Being Honest With Yourself
When you fall for someone, you seriously fall, and no one can talk you out of it. You’re in it and you’re not going to change how you feel. The thing you will hate doing? That would be being honest with yourself. This means figuring out what you really need when you’re in a relationship and even telling your boyfriend that things aren’t working out. The sad truth is that it’s super easy to get lost in a serious relationship, especially if you’ve been with the same person for several years. You think about your shared future and you think about yourself in terms of “we.” You put your boyfriend’s needs before yours more often that you should and sometimes you forget who you are and what you want out of life, even without meaning to. You’re going to seriously dislike being honest about what you want and need and yet it’s super important.
9. Taurus: Telling Your Boyfriend What He Needs To Change
You’re a super stubborn person if Taurus is your zodiac sign and that means that you don’t enjoy telling your boyfriend what he needs to change about himself and how he treats you. It doesn’t matter how awesome he is or how happy you two are together — if you’re going to be in a serious, long term relationship, there are going to be some things about him that you just don’t like. Maybe you want him to text you more often or get to know your siblings, or maybe you want to spend more time together, or maybe there’s something that he always says to you that you want him to stop. It really depends on the relationship, of course. But you won’t enjoy having this conversation because you’re so stubborn. You’re going to keep telling yourself that you don’t need to open up and have a big serious talk because it’s all going to work out.
8. Gemini: Making A Big Decision
You’re the very definition of indecisive, so when it comes to something that you hate doing in a relationship, that definitely would be making a big decision. This could be whether or not you want to even stay in the relationship, or whether you want to say yes to your boyfriend’s marriage proposal, or whether you should think about moving in together. Your friends and family are totally confused by this since they think that you wool be super thrilled to even be in this position. Why aren’t you excited about taking the next step with your lovely boyfriend? Sure, you are… but you’re also pretty freaked out about having to decide something so big about your love life. This never gets easier for you and if you stay with your boyfriend, there are only going to be more and more big decisions to make, and you won’t like making any of them, no matter how positive they are.
7. Cancer: Helping Your Boyfriend During Tough Times
You hate helping your partner when something is going wrong in his life not because you don’t want to help him but because you want to (almost too much). You’re a super caring person if you’re a Cancer sign and you can’t help but want everyone that you know to be as happy and healthy as possible. You’re the very definition of a caring and loving and loyal girlfriend. So really, you’re a total dream to date, whether or not you realize it. You’re going to have a tough time helping your boyfriend through his own tough time because you’re going to feel terrible the entire time. You’re going to take on his negative emotions and won’t be able to cope very well. He’ll definitely appreciate that you’re there for him, but at the same time he’s going to start worrying about how worried you seem, and it might make things even worse.
6. Leo: Listening To What Your Boyfriend Wants And Needs
This is something that you will hate doing in a relationship if you’re a Leo, and yeah, it doesn’t exactly make you sound like the best person. That’s because this is one of your worst traits. You’re a stubborn person who always needs to be the leader and always needs to be in charge no matter what situation you’re dealing with and where you are. That means that you need to control every single aspect of your relationship. Great for you. Not so great for your boyfriend. When it comes to long-term success, you’re going to have to listen to what your boyfriend wants and needs. You won’t enjoy having this conversation and you’ll probably try your best not to have it, but it’s the only way for you two to stay together. You’ll hate doing this because you won’t be able to control what he wants and needs, but caring about someone else is the whole point here.
5. Virgo: Getting Your Boyfriend’s Help
As a Virgo, you’re a responsible, logical, and self-sufficient person and you don’t enjoy asking other people to help you out with something. In fact, it’s not something that you usually do. However, when you’re in a relationship, you can’t be a one woman island. You have to get help and you have to be vulnerable or things aren’t going to work out. So that means that when it comes to the one thing that you hate doing the most in a relationship, getting your boyfriend’s help has got to be it. It’s not that you think that he would mess things up or make things worse (although you might — just kidding). It’s that you think that you should be able to do everything by yourself and if you can’t, then you’re screwing up your entire life. It’s a Virgo thing. You figure that you should be in control of everything when of course you’re absolutely allowed to get some help.
4. Libra: Standing Up For Yourself
The truth is that when you’re in a serious relationship, you’re going to have to stand up for yourself at one time or another. Maybe this will be about a fairly small thing, like telling your boyfriend that you feel kind of sick when you eat his absolute fave thing to cook (but you’ll tell him in a super nice way, of course). Or maybe this will be about a big thing, like how his mom makes you feel bad every time that you two go over to his childhood home. If your zodiac sign is Libra, then you absolutely hate standing up for yourself and this is your most hated thing in any relationship that you’re a part of. Sorry not sorry but you’re going to have to get over this. You owe it to yourself to be true to who you are and make sure that people are treating you well and fairly, whether that’s your boyfriend or the people in his life.
3. Scorpio: Dealing With The Inevitable Dry Spell
Yup, it’s going to happen. When you’re with someone for a really long time, eventually the lust is going to fade and the so-called honeymoon period is going to end. That means that you and your boyfriend are going to experience some kind of dry spell. Whether you’re both super tired from work or your busy schedules mean that you aren’t staying over at each other’s places as often as usual, you’re going to go through this. It’s just going to happen. Since you’re a Scorpio, that means that getting busy with your partner is super important to you, and so you’r not going to love this dry spell. In fact, you’re going to completely hate it, and it’s going to be a huge problem for you. The good news is that this won’t last forever and you and your boyfriend can take steps to reconnect and get back to where things were before in the bedroom.
2. Sagittarius: Moving In Together
As a Sagittarius, you’re all about being free-spirited and being able to travel. You are a serious travel buff and have a case of wanderlust for sure. You want to know that you can pick up and leave whenever you want. So, naturally, when it comes to the relationship thing that you hate based on your zodiac sign, it would be moving in with your partner. It’s not that you don’t love them or want to stay together. You just don’t want to take this next step because of how much you love having your freedom. You don’t want to be tied down and would probably think that living with someone would be your own personal nightmare. While this is probably really disappointing to your partner, sometimes you just can’t change who you are, so maybe if you discuss waiting a bit longer before cohabiting, they will understand and be willing to wait.
1. Capricorn: Having To Compromise
When you’re a Capricorn, you don’t want to compromise. At all. You won’t care that you should be fair to your partner and do things that they want to do sometimes. This is definitely going to cause some major issues for you since part of being in a relationship is compromising. You can’t do what you want 24/7. If you want to do that, then you should probably consider the single life because that’s where you’re going to end up. Whether it’s choosing what TV show to binge-watch on a Friday night or what restaurant to go to on a random Tuesday when neither one of you wants to cook, you have to compromise in a healthy and happy relationship. There’s literally no other way to stay sane and stay committed to each other. Even if you think that your boyfriend is super sweet and that he always agrees with you, eventually he’s going to want to have a say, too, and that might cause some major problems.