The human male is a complicated creature and that’s why he can be such a struggle to deal with most of the time. (Not that us females are any easier) You probably know by now that men are typically not as expressive as you would want them to be. They see openness and vulnerability as weakness. They don’t like to open themselves up too much because they think that it makes them susceptible to getting hurt. They would never willingly give their girls power over them so easily.
And as frustrating as that can be, you’re just going to have to accept that a vast majority of men are like that and there’s not much that you can do about it other than be patient with them. You have to give them the time and space that they need to really be able to trust you. You have to wait for them to open up to you and then you can really sharpen your communications as a couple.
But if you just can’t wait and you really want to find out what’s on his mind and what’s in his heart, then that’s no trouble at all. There is a way for you to confirm how he feels about you without necessarily forcing him to admit to it. You just have to stay vigilant. You just have to take notice of his behavior and you will be able to read between the lines. You can tell a lot about a man by the way he acts in a relationship. Sometimes, even the loudest and the clearest messages are the ones that aren’t sent with words. So if you notice that your man does a lot of the things that are listed in this article, then you can bet that he’s really in love with you and you don’t have to worry about a thing.
1. He really pays attention to you when you talk.
He always makes it a point to listen to you and hear what you’re saying. He would never make you feel like what you’re saying doesn’t matter or doesn’t carry weight. He will always make sure that you always feel like you’re being heard.
2. He puts in the necessary effort to make things work in a relationship.
He knows that relationship is work. He understands that he has a role to play and he’s always willing to live up to that role. He knows that relationships require effort and he isn’t unwilling to get his hands dirty so you can keep yours clean. He would go the extra mile for you.
3. He makes it a point to keep in mind the little things.
He always has an eye for detail. He finds everything that you say incredibly important and he will always make it a point to remember them no matter how insignificant they might be to you. They will always remember the littlest details because to them, the small things matter the most.
4. He really prioritizes your happiness.
At the end of the day, he knows that it’s about making one another happy. He will always try to put your happiness above his own. He values you in his life and he would never take you for granted. He will always do whatever he can to put a big fat smile on your face.
5. He doesn’t shy away from difficult conversations with you.
He knows that relationships aren’t always going to be bright and happy. He would be so willing to have difficult conversations with you. He wouldn’t be afraid of having occasional arguments with you because he knows that that’s part of being in a relationship.
6. He genuinely cares about your family.
He knows just how important your family is to you and so he would consider them to be important to him as well. He wants the most important people in your life to be cared for.
7. He really respects and trusts you.
He understands that you are your own individual and he would never do anything to threaten that. He respects that you are your own person and he would never impose his own personal convictions on you. He trusts you as a mature human being who is able to make the proper decisions for yourself and the relationship.
8. He does whatever he can to make life easier for you.
He doesn’t shy away from the grunt work. He wants the relationship that you’re in to actually help make your life easier. He doesn’t want to complicate your life in any way, shape, or form. He would willingly do whatever he could to make this life more bearable.
9. He would never lie to you about anything.
He is always honest with you even when it would be inconvenient for him to be so. With him, you can always trust that he’s telling you the truth. He would never willingly lie or mislead you about anything.